A Letter from a Christian to a Muslim Woman

[I did a little editing to the letter, but not much.  Although it is a little long, i recommend that people share this far and wide.  May Allah guide us and protect us.]        

            A Letter from a Christian to a Muslim Woman

By Joanna Francis-Writer, Journalist – USA

Between the Israeli assault on Lebanon and the Zionist “War on Terror,” the world is now center stage in every American home. I see the carnage, death and destruction that have befallen Lebanon , but I also see something else: I see you. I can’t help but notice that almost every woman I see is carrying a baby or has children around her.

I see that though they are dressed modestly, their beauty still shines through. But it’s not just outer beauty that I notice. I also notice that I feel something strange inside me: I feel envy. I feel terrible for the horrible experiences and war crimes that the Lebanese people have suffered, being targeted by our common enemy. But I can’t help but admire your strength, your beauty, your modesty, and most of all, your happiness. Yes, it’s strange, but it occurred to me that even under constant bombardment, you still seemed happier than we are, because you were still living the natural lives of women. The way women have always lived since the beginning of time. It used to be that way in the West until the 1960s, when we were bombarded by the same enemy. Only we were not bombarded with actual munitions, but with subtle trickery and moral corruption.

Through Temptation They bombarded us Americans from Hollywood , instead of from fighter jets or with our own American-made tanks. They would like to bomb you in this way too, after they’ve finished bombing the infrastructure of your countries. I do not want this to happen to you. You will feel degraded, just like we do.

You can avoid this kind of bombing if you will kindly listen to those of us who have already suffered serious casualties from their evil influence. Because everything you see coming out of Hollywood is a pack of lies, a distortion of reality, smoke and mirrors.They present casual sex as harmless recreation because they aim to destroy the moral fabric of the societies into which they beam their poisonous programming. I beg you not to drink their poison. There is no antidote for it once you have consumed it. You may recover partially, but you will never be the same. Better to avoid the poison altogether than to try to heal from the damage it causes. They will try to tempt you with their titillating movies and music videos, falsely portraying us American women as happy and satisfied, proud of dressing like prostitutes, and content without families.

Most of us are not happy, trust me. Millions of us are on anti-depressant medication, hate our jobs, and cry at night over the men who told us they loved us, then greedily used us and walked away. They would like to destroy your families and convince you to have fewer children. They do this by presenting marriage as a form of slavery, motherhood as a curse, and being modest and pure as old-fashioned. They want you to cheapen yourself and lose your faith. Our pearls are priceless, but they convince us that they’re cheap. But trust me; there is no substitute for being able to look in the mirror and seeing purity, innocence and self-respect staring back at you. The fashions coming out of the Western sewer are designed to make you believe that your most valuable asset is your sexuality. But your beautiful dresses and veils are actually sexier than any Western fashion, because they cloak you in mystery and show self-respect and confidence.

A woman’s sexuality should be guarded from unworthy eyes, since it should be your gift to the man who loves and respects you enough to marry you. And since your men are still manly warriors, they deserve no less than your best. Our men don’t even want purity anymore. They don’t recognise the pearl of great value, opting for the flashy rhinestone instead. Only to leave her too! Your most valuable assets are your inner beauty, your innocence, and everything that makes you who you are. But I notice that some Muslim women push the limit and try to be as Western as possible, even while wearing a veil (with some of their hair showing). Why imitate women who already regret, or will soon regret, their lost virtue? There is no compensation for that loss. You are flawless diamonds. Don’t let them trick you into becoming rhinestones.

Because everything you see in the fashion magazines and on Western television is a lie. It is Satan’s trap. It is fool’s gold. A Woman’s Heart I’ll let you in on a little secret, just in case you’re curious:  pre-marital sex is not even that great. We gave our bodies to the men we were in love with, believing that that was the way to make them love us and want to marry us, just as we had seen on television growing up. But without the security of marriage and the sure knowledge that he will always stay with us, it’s not even enjoyable! That’s the irony. It was just a waste. It leaves you in tears. Speaking as one woman to another, I believe that you understand that already. Because only a woman can truly understand what’s in another woman’s heart. We nurture our families and give comfort and strength to the men we love. But we American women have been fooled into believing that we are happiest having careers, our own homes in which to live alone, and freedom to give our love away to whomever we choose. That is not freedom. And that is not love. Only in the safe haven of marriage can a woman’s body and heart be safe to love. Don’t settle for anything less. It’s not worth it. You won’t even like it and you’ll like yourself even less afterwards. Then he’ll leave you.

Self-Denial: Sin never pays. It always cheats you. Even though I have reclaimed my honour, there’s still no substitute for having never been dishonored in the first place. We Western women have been brainwashed into thinking that you Muslim women are oppressed. But truly, we are the ones who are oppressed; slaves to fashions that degrade us, obsessed with our weight, begging for love from men who do not want to grow up. Deep down inside, we know that we have been cheated. We secretly admire and envy you, although some of us will not admit it. Most of us did not have fathers to protect us when we were young because our families have been destroyed. You know who is behind this plot. Don’t be fooled, my sisters. Don’t let them get you too. Stay innocent and pure. We Christian women need to see what life is really supposed to be like for women. We need you to set the example for us, because we are lost. Hold onto your purity. Remember, you can’t put the toothpaste back in the tube. So guard your “toothpaste” carefully!

I hope you receive this advice in the spirit in which it is intended; the spirit of friendship, respect, and admiration.

From your Christian sister “With Love”.



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4 Responses to A Letter from a Christian to a Muslim Woman

  1. Hajj Ali says:

    There is no doubt that you have spoken of an important matter in a nice way. The matter of preserving honor. This is but one of five main principles that all prophets -starting with Adam and ending with Muhammad- had brought: Preserving life, property, honor, sanity, and lineage. Hence, prohibited are murder and assault, thievery, slander, intoxication, and fornication and adultery. However, the most important matter that all prophets unanimously brought is the correct belief in the Creator and in the prophets, the last of whom was Muhammad. Prophet Muhammad -like his fellow prophets before him, including Moses and Jesus- came with Islam. God is the Only One who sent these honorable prophets. Hence, all of them said the same truth about Him: God is attributed with perfect attributes that do not resemble the attributes of the creation in any way whatsoever. God’s reality is different from that of His creation. His doing is dissimilar to their doings.
    God existed without a beginning and shall exist endlessly. He is the only Creator Who needs none and resembles none. He is attributed with knowledge, power, will, life, hearing, and sight that are in no way similar to those of the creation (humans, jinn, angels, animals, etc.)
    Muhammad as well as other prophets are men who are selected by God to convey the message to others. They are protected from ever committing blasphemy, enormous sins, and small abject sins. They are physically and morally attractive, They are the role model for humanity.
    You saw one facet of the beauty of Islam. We invite you to embrace all of Islam. Profess that no one is God except Allah and that Muhammad or Abul-Qasim is His Messenger. Believe in this statement and say it at an audible level disowning any creed that contradicts it and you become Muslim. We, Muslims, will be very happy for you. We will welcome you as our sister who not just admired verity but also adopted it. This is our sincere invitation to you. We have no more valuable thing to offer you than your safety in the Hereafter. We hope that you answer our invitation.

  2. Samir Elassaad says:

    SubhunAllah. Brilliant May Allah guide and bless you to the righteous path. Indeed this is a very important topic and you have handled it appropriately and mentioned important issues.

  3. mia says:

    ❤ :')

  4. Exquisite content in the letter & an appropriately exquisite response from Hajj Ali .

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